Consent
Consent is just another word for permission. It is important in every type of relationship.
By asking for consent, you are allowing the people you care about to enforce boundaries that feel good to them, and that you are showing that you respect them.
If you have a cute picture of you and a friend, and you ask if they are happy with you posting it before you put it on social media, you are getting their consent.
It applies to any situation where one person’s actions affect another. Just like you wouldn’t borrow someone’s phone without asking, you shouldn’t assume physical affection is okay without checking in first.
Use straight forward questions like “Are you okay with this?” or “Do you want to continue”.
Just because you consent to kissing one day, doesn’t mean you have to consent to kissing any other time.
Consent can be withdrawn at any time. It is okay to change your mind.
Consent given under pressure, manipulation or threats is not valid.
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